|person:||OMG YOU DIDN'T STUDY FOR THE TEST???!?!?!|
|person:||BUT HOW ARE YOU GONNA PASS???|
#1 tactic emotional abusers will use to get you to comply to their wishes is threatening suicide or self harm, don’t fall for it
If you notice whenever you get real with a person who is treating you like shit, and they immediately shrivel up into this pathetic ball of self loathing so that somehow you’re the one comforting them, they are an emotional abuser.
don’t fall for it